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Use the final minutes to state what was resolved, which question remains and who takes the next action. Send a brief written summary when details need preserving. Finish at the agreed time and give any further help its own purpose and realistic arrangement.

You spend an hour helping someone work through a problem. You have made progress, but the session ends with several loose questions. Later you receive messages about each one because neither of you is sure what was agreed.

Use the last few minutes to summarise what you resolved. Name the next action and who will take it. If you are offering another session, agree on its purpose and timing rather than leaving a general promise to keep helping.

Include the unanswered part

Say which questions remain open and where the person might find the answer. If you do not know, leave that uncertainty visible. A made-up answer can create more work than an honest limit.

Send the summary if written details would help, especially where dates or documents are involved. Then finish at the time you agreed. If more work emerges later, treat it as a new request you can consider alongside your other commitments. The earlier session can still have been useful without resolving every part of the problem.

Closing a session on a draft

An illustrative example

Suppose you help a friend revise an essay. Before ending, identify the paragraphs you discussed and the change the friend plans to make. Leave the source question you could not answer visible, with the appropriate place to check it if known. A summary might say that the opening is clarified, the friend will revise the example and one quotation still needs verification. If you want another session, agree on reviewing that revision rather than promising general ongoing help. Send the short account where the friend can keep it beside the draft. Later questions can then be assessed as new requests, while the session's completed contribution remains clear even though the essay is not yet finished.

Close the session usefully

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When the ending reveals more work

Write the new question in the summary and identify who will investigate it. You do not need to extend the session automatically to make its earlier work count. If the question is necessary for the next step, make that dependency clear. If you do not know the answer or a suitable source, leave the uncertainty accurate. A guessed answer can make the follow-up harder. Consider another session only against your current capacity and the task's requirements, with a specific purpose both people understand.

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