Two people decide to support each other's writing and start sending frequent reminders. One finds them helpful; the other feels watched and stops replying.
Agree on the form of support before beginning. You might meet for a short session, exchange a finished paragraph or check in once a week. Say what feedback you want and what can remain private.
Plan for a missed session
Decide how to handle cancellations and gaps. A brief message with a new time may be enough. Avoid assuming that silence authorises more reminders or questions about someone's personal circumstances.
After a few attempts, review whether the arrangement helps both people. You can change the frequency or stop without turning the decision into a judgement about the friendship. If one person wants detailed critique and the other only wants company while working, name that difference. A partner can offer a dependable setting or useful response, but the agreement works best when everyone understands what they are actually being asked to provide.


